My setup:
Raspberry Pi 4 4GB
Official USB-C power supply.
Heatsink enclosure (open at antenna location).
Legit 64GB SanDisk Ultra microSDXC card (A1) fully tested (including overwrite) with f3.
1080p 60 Hertz LCD monitor connected to the port next to the USB-C port (HDMI<-->HDMI).
Wired keyboard connected to a USB 2.0 port.
Wireless mouse (needs "usbhid.mousepoll=0" to work properly) connected to the other USB 2.0 port.
Latest Raspian Buster (without recommended software).
The problem in detail:
I followed the first time setup normally. It showed the WiFi networks around my home and my own one fine. Selected it, typed the password and after around 30 seconds it failed to connect. I thought maybe wrong password but no matter how hard i tried it would fail the same way again. I even copied the password out of a known good .txt file and still not working.
It's noteworthy that the little "5G" icon is shown in the network list. And the router has band steering enabled. Security is WPA2-PSK (CCMP) only. The network icon on the desktop doesn't even change at all on any connection attempt. Signal strength is 1 bar below full signal strenth.
What i tried so far:
I tried with a wpa_supplicant.conf in the boot partition. Not working.
I tried an external 2.4 GHz-only dongle which gets me just as far as the builtin WiFi. Noteable is for the external dongle only a kernel message appears "denied authentication (status 34)" which i could not find anywhere with this exact status code. Also when trying to connect with this dongle the mouse acts flaky and eventually stops until i plug it in again but there is nothing suspicious shown in dmesg output.
I fully updated Raspian over Ethernet with the Pi connected headless to the router. Still not working.
I'm out of ideas and not sure how to debug this. It seems to be a software problem since not even external dongles work. Every other device is able to connect including my Linux Notebook. Would appreciate help/ideas on how to get this working. Thanks in advance

edit:
Solved. I had the routers MAC filter enabled and forgot it was on.